"Molest" is not a concept, not a word, it is a living, breathing agony, a trauma, that eats the mind, the psyche, the past, present and future of a living being. Daily, momentarily, it gnaws on the the heart, the dreams of its victims. It eats the sleep. It erodes the mind. There's no rest for the victim.
Also, is it possible we create a powerful illness of the mind - and body - as a way to escape the trauma of the past and the dread of the future? Is illness a distraction, or, a call for help? Can we alleviate the power of trauma by using a sickness of the mind, or the body, to distract from the painful memory of the past?
My mind often reflects back to the nightmare of molesting when I was a child. Will I ever wake up?
Within our own personal being is the Light to guide us, unique as we are, to Unconditional Love. We each seek to fulfill our life, awaken the true self, our Divine Self. That awakening is, ready, waiting, within us. Read: Psalm 42.1-5 KJV
The trauma of molesting destroys who we were meant to be. We're forever a child trapped in that dark room, forever waiting for the dreaded touch, the sick smile, and the soft whisper of a person who opens the door to the nightmare of life.